Thursday, April 17, 2008

Our Evening Walk

Today was such a pretty day that we thought you might like to come on a walk with us. I usually walk the babies between five and six in the evening. That tends to be their fussiest time of day and my fussiest time of day. The fresh air really helps our attitudes.


First we strike out across the dam toward the horse pasture. The pond was built after we moved here; it was lots of fun to watch such an undertaking occur right in our front yard. That is Sipsey--ready to go.

We pass by the horses: Pistol on the left, One Gun on the right. These are H's Quarter horses. Scout is in the middle. All three of the babies have now been able to pet Onsie's soft nose. He was sweet to them.

Then we come to the barn. Sometimes we bring scraps to the chickens. The white chicken is Chic Chick (not chik chik but sheek chik). The other hens are Rhode Island Reds. They are good layers. We have about a half dozen of them.

This is the rooster. He is a game chicken. I think game chickens are beautiful. They do a better job at surviving free-range than the Rhode Islands. We had the Rhode Islands in a pen for a good while. We have lost several since moving them to the barn. We rarely see them, but sometimes at night we hear coyotes. There are also foxes and hawks for the chickens to contend with.

Here is a better picture of chic chic. She was at the barn before the Rhode Island Reds moved in. She reminds them of it too.

Before we leave the barn, we look over at the pretty place where we live.

The next thing we pass after leaving the barn is the goat and sheep pasture. The four animals up front are the goats. Those in the background are the sheep. The goats are H's, the sheep Papa's. The goats, starting with the closest, are Brownie, Priscilla, Presley, and Verma Lee.

Here are the sheep again. Those that look like deer are Mouflon sheep; those with the ram horns are black-bellied Barbados sheep. They are very shy creatures. Papa Glenn has had them about a year and has already doubled his flock. I think he has had six lamb this spring.
This fifth goat is Aubie. She thinks she is a cross between a human and a dog. This is the goat we got from the family who wanted to get rid of her because she was peeing on their couch. Luckily, we have not had that problem with her. She talks a lot. She seems to annoy the other goats at times, but they still love her.
After we walk the fence of the sheep pasture, we come down a hill and pass the cow pond. This pond has been here forever. H's dad built it when he had cows. The lily pads are beautiful when they are in bloom.

Here is another pretty spring photo of the cow pond. The dogs love to swim in it to cool off during the middle of our walks.

Not soon after the cow pond we pass a large patch of wild ferns. There are sporadic wild ferns throughout our walk, but this is a whole slew of them.

There is the occasional piece of trash we pass on our walk. Across from the ferns there is this insert and heel piece of a shoe. I need to come up with a good story of how it got there by the time the children are old enough to ask about it.

Then we head out on the main dirt road. H's parents and us are the only people who live down the dirt road so there is usually no traffic. This interesting specimen looks like some sort of mushroom made out of coffee grounds. I am not sure what it is, but I notice it every time we walk past it.

Often the dogs go ahead of us and scout things out. This is a piece of the main dirt road down past both the houses.

Here is another perplexing item we get to ponder on our walks: a scattering of oyster shells.

The babies and I are watching this big mess of blackberries. Once they are ready, we hope to get to them before the birds do.

Right now we are turning around at the old Woody house. I am not sure why it is called that, but that is what everyone calls it, so I do too. It has an old Coke machine on the front porch--a sign that a house has had lots of good times. No one has lived in this house since H was a child. A mama buzzard has lived in it for several years now. As I took the picture mean Scout went in and flushed her out. She sits on one egg each spring and the baby always has white hair that stands straight up on its head--kind of like Mazie.

Here we are traveling back. Several places in our walk are stretches of country lanes with such pretty canopies of trees. It gets ungodly hot here in the summer. The trees and shade at various places in our walk will help to keep things just unbearably hot as opposed to ungodly hot.

Here is a pretty wild fern hanging out by itself.

This is the third and last pond we pass on our walk. It is called the old pond. It is pretty low, but still pretty. The dogs usually cool off in it too. Our house is to the left, H's parents' to the right.

This is Scout, the half-coyote dog, running back toward us full force. She took off into the woods, probably after some defenseless fawn or rabbit.

This is the ramp we take back to our porch. We built it before we knew we were going to be having three babies at once--good fortune.

Once back inside, the babies play on the floor so they can stretch out after being confined to the baby Bjorn and stroller, and we get the beer from the freezer that we placed there before we started out on our walk so that it would be cold and slushy upon our return. We hope you enjoyed walking with us today. We enjoyed you; you were very good company.

Monday, April 14, 2008

Back in the Country

Our time at the beach was good. It was nice to be off as a family. We stayed together the entire time. This means we didn't send one mama out on errands; anytime there was somewhere to go, we all went. And, it all went just fine.
Thursday, after our orthopedic appointment, we took the babies out to eat. We got to eat about a third of our meal before we headed out the door. My threshold for our babies causing noise in someone else's space is pretty low right now. Once two of the babies became fussy, we bolted. Then we took the babies on their first excursion to Target. They enjoyed the experience, looking around and taking in all the sights and sounds. I think the trip went well because not one of them asked if we would buy them something. We bought the babies sunglasses and bathing suits and a little blow-up pool. We were in the mood for some beach action, but the cool weather kept us at bay. We never made it, too windy and cool. We did take nice walks each day, visited with the neighbors and enjoyed our family time.

I will say this: You know you are toting around triplets at the beach when you don't end up at the beach and when you eat chicken for supper every night: no shrimp, oysters, or snapper for us this trip. (One of the things I periodically craved throughout my pregnancy was a half dozen on the half shell with a bloody mary.) But, we realized that more beach time, whether we actually make it to the beach or not, is a good idea.

Here is a photo of the girls (LM) playing in the cabin:
In annoying parental fashion, we did dress the babies in their new suits and sunglasses for a photo opportunity. Elliott shows off the sun hat his Mama Bee bought him at Target.

Elizabeth Lucia:


Elliott Kimbrough:

Mazie Bell:

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Seven Month Weights

The babes were weighed for their last RSV shot of the season. They will start back in October for the second season of shots. Their weight gain has slowed down, but that is expected.

Lucia weighed 14# 6 ounces
a gain of 5 ounces

Elliott weighed 16# 4 ounces
a gain of 10 ounces

Mazie weighed 13# 2 ounces
a gain of 13 ounces

We were glad to see Mazie adding on a decent amount of ounces.

Tomorrow we take the babies back to the pediatric orthopedist. We saw him when they were a month old so he could look at their "hip clicks". At that appointment he told us "Hip click is what they say so I can meet your babies." While there was nothing to worry about then, he did want to follow up after they turned six months to make sure they were developing properly.

After our appointment tomorrow we will head on to the Gulf for a long weekend--just the five of us. We are very excited to be getting away. The weather is supposed to be good. It isn't Spring Break, so hopefully it won't be too crowded. We plan to take the babies to the beach. Hopefully we will get there. If not, I am sure we will just enjoy having a change of scenery.

We hope you have a wonderful weekend.

Monday, April 7, 2008

A Big Day

Today we had a big day in a big way. Well, for us at least. To celebrate our seven month milestone, I took the babies to the big city By Myself. This is my first time taking them any where alone. We went to the drug store and the grocery store. Yes, we do have a drug store (singular) and a grocery store (ahem, yes, only one) in our little town. But, Mazie was out of her special formula and I wanted to go to one of those grocery markets to get a few things we can't get here (filet mignon, apricots, avocado, kale, and wine). (Makes you glad you live where you do, huh?)

The day was gorgeous. Only blue skies. Everything went according to plan. It felt good getting out of the house and handling the babies on my own. They were well-behaved. I had to feed them as soon as we arrived. Then we loaded up. I put the girls in the double Jeep umbrella stroller and Elliott in the Baby Bjorn. I liked the ease of movement with this arrangement. I just can't imagine handling a triplet stroller in public spaces. It took a little finagling to get the double stroller into the bathroom. If I had had them in a triplet stroller I would have had to ask someone to watch the babies while I went into the bathroom. The babies enjoyed the new sights. Elliott and Lucia were very comfortable. Mazie took about fifteen minutes to settle in. She cried in the drug store and then while we were in the bathroom at the grocery store. But then she settled down and enjoyed the rest of her time.

I am one who Really does not like attention drawn to me. This is a tough character trait for a parent of triplets to have. We did get a lot of attention. Most of it was very nice. People were sweet and excited by the sight of three babies. A lot of people say things like "You've got your hands full" or "Wow, three of them." Some people say things like, "You have three blessings" or call the babies angels or miracles. Parents of multiples always say hello. One guy about my age in scrubs bee-lined over to us and asked me how we were sleeping after he told me about his twins and two singletons. On another day when we were out, a woman who was about 70 years old told me her mother was a triplet. I found her very interesting to talk to. I enjoy talking with people as long as they have boundaries.

The first time we took the baby to the pediatrician's office one of the office employees asked us very personal questions about how I got pregnant. Normally I don't mind sharing with people, but we had just met her and within twenty seconds she is asking very personal questions. She was also the reason we got the "Please wash your hands before touching mine" signs that we hang on their infant carriers. She was rubbing all over the babies.


The only thing that didn't feel good on our outing was a complete stranger we encountered in the drug store. She was very sweet and well-intentioned, but I think she touched Mazie on every area of skin that was exposed. She rubbed her cheeks, her legs, her hands, her arms. She even kissed her on the head. Mazie cried most of the time we were in CVS. I think she was scared. It was not one of her usual "I'm mad/sleepy/hungry/wet" cries. This lady, after telling me how much she loved children, asked me if she could pick her up and hold her. If Mazie hadn't been strapped into her stroller I think the woman would have just picked her up without asking. I told her no, that we needed to get going since she was unhappy. The lady then let me know that my baby was crying because she was hungry. (I had just finished feeding her.) These are the encounters that are not so enjoyable. One area I definitely need to work on is gracefully protecting my children. I have lots to learn.

Once in the grocery store, I first went for the items I knew I wanted most, so that if we indeed had a meltdown, I could hit the register and go. But, the babies hung in there and let me enjoy the shopping. NanaLin gave H and me each one of those nylon shopping bags for Christmas last year; the kind you are supposed to use so you don't have to use so many plastic grocery bags. These worked perfectly for my shopping extravaganza. I hung them from the stroller handles and filled them with my items. Once finished, I just handed them to the clerk. She unloaded, scanned, and then reloaded them. I hung them back on the stroller handles and could make it out to the car by myself. It was an easy little system that worked well. As long as what I need fits into those two bags, the four of us can handle some grocery shopping.

The photos below show the girls in the umbrella stroller. The second picture also shows Elliott's head in the Baby Bjorn looking over the girls.



More Photos

Here are a few more photos from this month's birthday celebration. My dad asked today "Why all the "nekkid" pictures?" When my sister came home from the hospital my dad would bring home a cupcake the 27th of every month to celebrate her birth. I always thought it was a neat idea, so I decided to do it with our three darlings. I think I just thought they should be naked for the photo opportunity because they are babies and I wanted to be able to note their development and changes better.



These cupcakes are my favorite to make. You should try them. The are The Joy of Cooking's Black Bottom cupcake, page 962. I think I've made them three or four times for the babies' seven birthdays. They are so moist and delicious and you don't have to lug out the big mixer. They just require a whisk and a spatula. And, the beauty of it is--if I leave out the big dollop of cream cheese with chocolate chips that is supposed to be plopped down in the middle before baking--these cupcakes are both dairy- and soy-free. (Yes, they are already all gone.) But when you make them, you should definitely not skip the big dollop of cream cheese and chocolate chips. It would make me happy to know you could enjoy them fully.



Lucia and Pink Pearl:

Elliott and Big Blue Harry:

Mazie and Little Ribbit:

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Happy Seven



Happy happy birthday babies. Seven months old. Time is moving so fast. It seems you three have grown several months worth just over the past month. You are getting more and more active. You are interacting much more. We love to sit and watch you all babble at each other; we wonder what you are emphatically saying that could be so interesting. Each of you is a joy to watch grow.


Lucia's hobbies are still squealing and smiling. She spends large chunks of her day in gleeful exclamation. She never fails to reciprocate a smile. She also loves to eat. She is my champion breastfeeder and doesn't waste any of her solid food.


Elliott seems to have doubled in size the past month. His feet are gigantic. He is also getting active. We have to catch him in a snuggle mood to hold him for a few minutes. More times than not he wants to get down or climb up over your shoulder. He is officially crawling as of the sixth, but has been mobile for a couple of weeks, pulling himself around by his hands.


Mazie loves to slap things. It is the noise I think she loves best about it. The floor is her favorite thing to slap, but she also enjoys slapping her bottle, leg, and mattress. While her moods still change more frequently than the other two, I feel she is becoming a more content baby. She seems to be enjoying things more. Several people who have met her lately have said that she is very observant. She watches and takes things in, especially new situations.



All three of the babies enjoy being read to. If I am reading to one baby, the other two often will turn to listen and look at the pages. Also, the babies are beginning to acknowledge the animals. They have begun petting the cats. They mostly just watch the dogs, but a few times they have gotten tickled by watching Molasses. Mo won't do anything other than be a dog, and still they laugh at her.


So far only Lucia and Elliott have teeth, two each. But Mazie is drooling like a banchie so we think she is steadily working up to it. I asked Lucia to show me her teeth:



Their hair continues to come in. Lucia has the thickest hair. It is both brown and blond, in between her brother's and sister's colors. Elliott's is very blond and seems it will be straight. Mazie's is the darkest and while we once thought her hair was going to be curly, it is very straight at the moment--standing straight up on her head. It is still hard to tell, but it looks like both the girls have widow's peaks.




This month we took the babies' pictures with their favorite stuffed animals. The animals were given to the babies by the McCauslands soon after their birth, and they have been their favorites from day one.

Lucia's animal, Pink Pearl, is an elephant.



Elliott's animal is named Big Blue Harry and is a hippopotamus.



Mazie's frog is named Little Ribbit.

Friday, April 4, 2008

Week's Recap

We have had a good week. We are definitely back to ourselves after the bout with colds. Our schedule is flowing. I feel like we are again in sync. We have been enjoying evening walks. I can no longer push the in-line stroller on these dirt roads. Either the babies are too heavy or the jarring has messed up the alignment or something about the stroller. It is a bear to push. So, I am now using a double Jeep umbrella stroller and the Baby Bjorn. I am enjoying this traveling combination and think it will suit us fine until we get a serious off-roading triplet stroller.

On our walk Wednesday we took some vegetable scraps to the chickens at the barn. As soon as the babies and I got to the barn, it started to rain. We lingered about twenty minutes at the barn. Lucia got to pet H's horse One Gun. They got to watch the chickens peck around. Finally, I decided we were just going to have to brave the elements and head home. It was a warm afternoon with a steady but soft fall of rain. I think they enjoyed their first rain shower. And, they didn't melt.



Mazie played an April Fool's joke on us this week. The babies usually awaken around 6:30 each morning. H will go make bottles while I change diapers, or vice versa. Wednesday morning I was changing diapers. When I rolled Mazie onto her back I could see that she had soiled herself pretty well. There was also the worst stench of urine I have ever smelled. When I opened up her diaper, she had what looked like crystallized, gelatinous urine. I know those adjective contradict each other, but that is the best way I can describe it. Oh, and the smell. I already mentioned it, but I'll mention it again. It was awful. I called H to come take a look. We both started getting concerned. H thought we needed to save some of it to show the pediatrician and that Mazie might have some sort of a urinary tract infection. I was already trying to figure out what I could do with Lucia and Elliott so I could take Mazie the 75 miles to our pediatrician. Well, I went to bathe Mazie off and H changed the other two's diapers. By the time we got back to the nursery, H had figured out that the substance was the innards of Mazie's diaper. We cut open Lucia's diaper to confirm that it was the same stuff. Thank goodness it was and thank goodness the pediatrician's office had not yet opened for me to call.


Here is a picture of Lucia, the foot lover. She slept this way for at least fifteen minutes, holding her foot. Sometimes when I am feeding her a bottle, I will have to take her foot out of her mouth to put the bottle back in. Also, today she was sucking on her foot for so long that when I picked her up the bottom of her foot was puckered, like she had been in the tub too long. It's true.


This picture of Elliott from this week shows him in his fishing rags. This is an outfit our friend Judy gave him. It is our favorite clothing for him right now. He looks forward to the day his Papa Glenn can take him fishing out in that pretty pond.



This is a picture of Mazie showing off her new Bumbo table that Summer and Rachael and Seth sent. She loves it. She likes for me to put toys on her table so she can nudge them off so I can put them back on so she can knock them off so I can put them on, ad infinitum. Mazie has done well on the breast milk this week. She has received half an ounce once a day since Monday and has not had an episode. Tomorrow I will up her to a full ounce once a day for the next week.



The children continue to interact with one another. The two photos below show Elliott and Lucia laughing at one another. We love to watch them interact and always step back and let them communicate with one another whenever they are in the mood.