Lucia used to be our neat eater. She still is very deliberate in her use of only her pointer finger and thumb to pick things up. She will use her little pincher to pick up each morsel and then slowly chew until she is ready for the next bite. Recently though, she has been wanting to give her hair a little extra conditioner, a little extra moisture. She loves rubbing her food into her hair, her favorite choice being a yogurt hair treatment. I think it's working.